Carnet de Voyage: May 2025

( photos souvenir) olala!! que de souvenirs dans ces photos 📸 J'etais entrain de scroll 📜 mon feed dans mon compte Facebook et jai revu ces photos 📸 souvenirs. Que le temps passe!! Le temps passe tres vite. Les annees changent et nous aussi...On change nous ne sommes plus les memes Bref! Ceci dit mon post est juste un point de vue sur certains sujets qui font trop de polémiques pour rien quand les gens sont en realité libres de leur choix. surtout dans la communaute Noire hypocrite

Au fait! J'ai un crush pour ces deux robes simples mais classiques. Je les avais prises recemment à Zara. Je pense qu elles vont avec tout. On peut les accesoiriser avec pas mal de choses. qu en pensez vous?

Personne ne devrait imposer ses gouts et ses choix sur quelqu un d'autre. On peut partager et suggerer mais on n impose pas quand il s'agit d un choix Personnel qui n'affecte nullement les autres. Ensuite quand on se rend compte que toi qui impose a l'autre, tu as des imperfections aussi. l Cette hypocrisie qui ronge notre societe voici en quelques mots mon avis sur tout ca

A vrai dire j'ai maintenant atteint un niveau ou je me fiche pas mal de ce que les gens pensent ou disent de moi. La vie on ne la vie qu une fois. Vos pensées a mon sujet ne m interessent plus. Celui qui se fait une idée de moi negative ou positive c est son probleme. Mes personnes proches me connaissent. Donc je n ai plus a me justifier de quoi que ce soit. Je sais qui je suis et le reste m importe peu aujourd'hui. C'etait tout ça mon avis sur l hypocrisie et la fausseté concernant notre communauté Noire et ça commence a m'agacer honnetement. C'est tout ça qui fait que jai de moins en moins de personnes autour de moi. Merci de m avoir lu et a bientot pour plus de discussions. Je conclus ce post avec mes shorts que je fais et partage quand je suis inspirée ❤️🌟😊

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Souvenirs des 90's music. Moi j'aime 😊❤️ beaucoup cette chanson de Janet jackson ♥️ Again

(Post not reviewed and edited) Hello Dear Readers, these are the discussions of the week. I am trying my best to keep the dynamic of my youtube channel. I admit that I sometimes feel anxious and apprehensive before posting my discussion videos because I share my views, thoughts and opinions and sometimes I get negative comments. Sometimes it is worrying to womnder if people will understand you . I am really open to people who do not agree with me but the insults, bullying and cussings are a NO for me. Yes, of course I like when people understand me. I decided to share my opinions on my youtube channel because I realized that the world is not limited to me and my little life. I love sharing my family time pictures and things like that on my social media accounts but these past few years I felt like I needed to do more. When I see things happening in my community I feel like there is a lot to talk about. I see what happening in my country I am hurt and I feel like something must be said. I love my country I love my continent and it hurts to see things falling apart or going nowhere. Today, I wanted to continue the part of my conversation that I started last time but first, let me share some nice pictures of our walking time out with my son. We had a wonderful sun this Saturday. For two weeks the weather was bad here so I was so happy to enjoy this beautiful weather. I hope it will brighter your day too (smile)

These are my so uncomfortable discussions of the week Discussion part 1

At the end of the day, people need to understand that women are free to make their own choices and decisions. The pressure is always on Black women especially African women. and, I am fed up! it is exhausting. If it is not your hair it is that you must be married even if you have accomplished some of the things required by the society. When you are married then it is not enough if you have no children. When you have a child it is not enough if you do not have more than one. I mean let us BE! The pressure is constantly on us and it is not fair at all! Relaxed hair, short hair natural hair, hair with extensions or weaves etc. It doesn't matter! These are just details to me. Please let us BE! I do not think that these details are limiting our capacity to be women. Natural hair or not. How do you care about natural hair easily or fastly when you see how much it cost to do these hair in hair salons? At least 200 US dollars up to more. Can you spend that money often every two weeks? Maybe but most of the time you come out of thre disappointed because nobody respect us and you know why? Because we are the communbity who has no economical power. Black people are POOR! that's the truth! And, when later you find out that Black women hair products are expensive for nothing because they are not good for us (yes I can laugh) and they at the end, they recommend you to buy White people's hair products (the irony of fate!)... I mean what should we do? We have different types of hair in the same family. Some are softer than others. Some require more attention and care but if you live in fast city ville knowing that your hair care is a ritual what should you Do?? Then, if you are my partner or a frind and you keep hammering on my head that I need to be natural I will simply write a contract where you will agree to do my hair days and nights without complaining. The moment you do it I will go to my bedroom and open my drawer and I will remind that agreement. Then, you will learn that it is not the same things for everyone. So l;eave me alon! I do whatever I can. I stopped relaxing my hair since three years now but it is difficult to comb them often. I do not have help like in Africa where some hair services are affordable and I ;don't want to keep short hair either. I know some Black women like my cousin who was exhausted to do her hair rituals every night then she shaved everything. I was shocked and sad but it was her decision because her work does not allow her to spend long time in the bathroom just for hair care. Her hair grows so fast so to make simple and affordable she goes in hair salon men in Paris and she cut them often. She now keeps them short. When you don't know all these facts, it would be nice to respect people's decisions and choices. When you don't know all that, telling a woman how to look like is kind of disrespectful in a way and I dislike it a lot! Men are disrespectful and the nappy women hair ladies are too. No tolerance at all! But a bunch of hypocrites claiming that we should pride our African identity when they are the same puting tatoos on their skin. The same who watch porn movies. Tell me is it African culture to relax men hair? to have tatoos of whatsoever? Is it African identity to pound women's back door when you have s**x because you watch that in a White people movies. You natural hair women is it African identity to sleep with a man and live with him without being married to him? So stop this nonsense and hypocrisy! I put my weaves then what?? I will put them as much as I want. Leave us alone! If at least you were to;lerant by telling us for example do not do that excessively, we would understand but you want to impose us your opinion. If you care that much about Black women then find the cure of period cramps and pain and heavy bleeding because yes, that is one of the things that Black women especially in Africa suffer the most. If you care that much about Black African women then find the cure about high blood pressure bc Black people suffer this the most. I you care that much about African women help us with our Rights to be respected. Give us opportunity to go to school even in villages. Open clinic for women to give birth properly. Help that we do not face more of these domestic violence, abuse, injustice and feminicide that are more and more current in our society. If you care that much about us Black women, understand that the challenges that are facing Black women in the diaspora are not the same with the ones in the African continent. The History is different. Do not mix up everything bc you are confused! I do not define myself by what I wear on my body. These things are nothing. If you ask me where I am from I will tell you my story, my family story. If you care that much about us then have the decency to shut up and respect our choices, We call it elegance and love of thy neighbor. Understand that our Histories are different. I do not need ancestry.com to tell you my genealogy trees. The Black women Hair is often politicized in the diaspora and unfortunately the Black Africans bandwagon on a movement that They do not understand for the most part. So Please! Respect our choices Discussion/ Part 2

At the end of the day, if someone loves you, he or she will loves you for who you are. That person might change you little by little but what is the reason of Love? It is to love without prejudice or something like that. This discussion upset me so much because I see that people disrespect us. The real challenge of African women to me is not the hair but the decent life in our society. Have good functional governments. Being more economically powerful It is when I show my passpurt at any airport of the world, I am respected like Amnericans are respected, like Europeans are respected. I want that people respect my continent and stop laughing at us. So spare me this not important discussion bc it distracts us from the main concerns of the continent. Something I will always repeat to my son is You are who you are no matter what people will say about you. I will make sure that statement will stay strong in him when we will go back home and go again to my village spend some times there. This experience and trips are a way to tell a story to himself. The story of who he is. I will make him experience life there like I did: enjoying the river, eating food cooked on the fire woods 🪵, plantation, how to plant. My country nature; be familiar with our tropical forest. Be familiar with my culture. That will be so important in a world where people lose authenticity .That's all I have to say for today Thank you for reading and I will see you next time